нейролингвистическое кодирование

Looking through grants{manuals} for throwing{stopping} to smoke, I repeatedly met advice{council} to take a pure{clean} sheet of a paper and to write to one column the reasons for the benefit of refusal of smoking, and in other column - reasons against. Further to weigh all pro и contra and then to make the decision. At once I shall tell - advice{council} inutile. Here to weigh there is nothing. To weigh arguments it is possible when you deliberate, whether it is necessary to marry or when you choose what machine to buy and where. And with smoking a situation extremely clear: you want to live - stop immediately and finally. Stop at once at one stroke, instead of gradually; there is nothing to pull a cat for a tail. Подробнее...

In the third case remember or write down: binge actually badly helps to communicate, is especial if in dialogue very much much depends on one phrase or gesture! And dialogue under pairs alcohol actually is not easier, but only is only more primitive. And than is more often you resort to alcohol, especially primitive there is a circle of your dialogue! And some words about that situation when you in the company force to drink together with all. First, if you have prevailed upon to make something contrary to your desires, unless it speaks about your force? And second, mean: arrangements of friends justify the one who has wanted to drink and has specially gone to such company where it{him} will persuade … Подробнее...